For those who are not experienced in anal plays I recommend a small enema-like device that is used to clean the rectum. With the usage of this anal douche you can be sure all your worries will be flushed away, regarding dirty issues.
Can you already feel the warmth of the first spring sunrays? Time for some picnic - and outdoor sex!
Allright, here comes a kinky secret of mine: When getting my pussy licked, I do not like pointed tongues. I prefer to enjoy the smooth, slippery, flat surface of my lover's tongue... :P
My tip for X-mas: if you haven't tried any sex toys yet, it's high time to get one for your lover - and to try it out together immediately! It definitely will be one of your kinkiest Christmas...
Some of you asked for some tips on blowjobs, so we should move on with this topic. The first rule of a good blowjob: don't use your teeth - unless you are attending an s/m chamber and want to torture your partner. Some might like it, but the majority simply don't want to worry about their penises bitten off... Just make sure to open wide and use your lips, instead of your teeth.
Vibrations are good!Many women own a vibrator, trust me, I know... ;) So why don't you integrate it into your lovemaking session? Use it with her! During foreplay, run it over her clitoris, or touch her nipples with it... Hmm, great!
It's Valentine's Day! Still, it's not too late to get a boquet of her favorite flowers or put on the lingerie he really likes. Oh, and don't forget to cool the champagne! Have a nice time! ;)
Shaving tips - part 3: Well, we covered almost everything you have to know about shaving the pubic zone. If you occassionally still get those red spots despite following my advices, here's what you can do with them: Apply some Visine eyedrops to the area (make sure it's not an open wound!), this is what we use in the "porn industry" as well!
Shaving tips - part 2.:So you have already chosen the products, let's get down to brass tacks. First I advise you to trim the hair if this will be your first time, the razors do not really like long hair. then take a hot bath, I usually use some smoothing oil as well, this will make the hair soft. Apply some gel/cream/foam and pass the razor over the skin in the same direction that the hairs normally point. Stroke every area no more than twice! (to be continued soon!)
Shaving tips - part I.: Several of you asked for the secret of my smooth pubic zone, so I thought it's time to share it with you. First I would like to address those who are still hesitating: don't worry, after a little practice it is a really easy thing to do, and don't forget, the hairless skin is more sensitive to the caresses! So here are a few things before getting into the bathroom and grabbing your razor. First of all, make sure you are using the right products: a gel, foam or cream that doesn't contain irritants and a sharp blade (preferably new). As I experienced, shaving creams formulated especially for women are virtually the same as the creams sold for men, they differ only in their scent, so you could experiment with your husbands cream as well, but never use his razor! (to be continued soon)
Guys, summertime is here, high time to have some vacation - and some more spice in sex life! The holiday season offers fabulous places to visit, which could be exciting sex locations as well, just think about some romantic cuddling at a sunset beach, or some outside fun at the remote mountain brows... The choice is yours! ;)
Wow, look what I found on the internet: a very useful article with the telling title \"Massage her into Ecstasy\"... hmm... sounds good, right? Click
here to read the whole article! I think I\'d better try it out myself as well, and let you know the result... :)
Another technique which women are very receptive of is to have your partner lie on her back, spread her vaginal lips wide apart with your outer fingers, and use your middle finger to rapidly slide up and down her vagina, lightly grazing her clitoris. This motion alone will often bring a woman to orgasm. Don’t forget to use your mouth while you are fingering, keep kissing her, her neck, and all her other erogenous zones.
Most women masturbate by rubbing a finger or two over their clitoris, sometimes \"through\" the skin of their inner or outer lips, in a circular or back-and-forth motion. You can do this too, and it is most helpful to ask, or better yet, have her show you how she likes it done. Lie down side by side, and put your hand over hers while she shows you what she likes. You can also try having her hand over top of yours guiding.
We use them, we like them - but do we know anything about the origin of dildos? Well, I have just found this interesting article by Janet Thompson, maybe you want to check it out
here.
This year for Valentine\'s Day, extend the celebration. Why just enjoy each other for one day when you can make each day of the week a Valentine\'s surprise with different gifts and treats for each other?
Guys, VALENTINE\'S DAY is APPROACHING!!! Time to get some more romance in your lives, right? Try to surprise your partners with kindness and attention - or make an unforgettable hot night (for example with the help of my little tips...)!
Write out an invitation to have sex with you and send it to your lover in the mail. Once they open it, they\'ll be waiting for the time and place! Be sure you send it to the correct address!
I know you\'re looking for guaranteed methods that will make any woman you decide to woo orgasm, but that\'s not going to happen because all women are different and need different treatment, different stimulation in order to get off.
If she doesn\'t reach orgasm, that doesn\'t mean you\'re a horrible lover. It just means that you might have to try different methods. But please, don\'t pressure her and make her feel like she\'s letting you down if she doesn\'t orgasm every time you have sex. Some days are better than others, so just have yourself a good time. Otherwise she\'ll start faking it to please you and nobody wants that...
Complete a festive evening spent out in the cold by making things cozy and romantic indoors. Draw a hot bath for the two of you, scented with peppermint oil, and soak in it while you drink spiked hot cocoa or coffee! Enhance the holiday mood by lighting candles that smell like cinnamon and vanilla.
Sometimes our fantasy works better in sensual experiencing... I really recommend you to read some erotic fiction, like stories from Anais Nin, my recent favourite. You could find
some samples here so that you could start experimenting tonight... ;)
So... I made up my mind to tell a kinky secret of mine. I often dream about a strap-on dildo, with which I could fulfill all my hidden, dirty wishes towards a man... Dominating him a bit, you know... I never dared to utter this fantasy of mine so far, I was always afraid that everyone will think that I\'m crazy. Sure, it is far from the innocent-looking Sandy, but hey, do not force me into a category, I\'m more than that - sometimes sweet, sometimes wild! I wonder what my fans would say if I ever do this on my website!
Feel free to post your viewpoint so that I could know your reaction, okay?
The small of her back: Don\'t make the mistake of making her breasts the only stop on your way to the main event. That\'s what she\'s expecting. Surprise her by asking her to lie on her stomach and massage her lower back. Besides being rich in nerve endings, the small of the back has pressure points where stress can accumulate. A massage there might not turn her on in the same way that sucking on her nipple or rubbing her clitoris will, but it\'ll feel good and help release stress. What\'s more, it could even help with arousal, by increasing blood flow and engorgement in the pelvic area. Start by applying steady but moderate pressure with your fingertips and if she likes it, work up to a deeper massage. It never hurts to throw in a few kisses there as well. So while you are massaging her, take a minute or so to kiss her neck, then run your tongue very softly down her spine!
Feet are the forgotten erogenous zone! Start out your foreplay by washing your lover\'s feet and then massaging them with a peppermint lotion. Then work up to kissing and licking their feet. By then, they’ll be worked up for other things as well, believe me!
Another kinky favourite is connected to dining out: whenever I’m out to dinner with my partner, I go to the bathroom, remove my underwear and then slide it into his pocket when I get back to the table. I know that he’s turned on because I have no panties on, and this feeeling excites me as well…
One of my favourite fantasies include soft fur coats. There\'s a reason the women on soap operas do this. If I arrive at my lover\'s door covered with my fur coat from ankles to neck, but my pair of boots and necklaces are the only things I wear underneath the coat... I guess you could easily imagine the outcome of this story...
The small of her back: Don\'t make the mistake of making her breasts the only stop on your way to the main event. That\'s what she\'s expecting. Surprise her by asking her to lie on her stomach and massage her lower back. Besides being rich in nerve endings, the small of the back has pressure points where stress can accumulate. A massage there might not turn her on in the same way that sucking on her nipple or rubbing her clitoris will, but it\'ll feel good and help release stress. What\'s more, it could even help with arousal, by increasing blood flow and engorgement in the pelvic area. Start by applying steady but moderate pressure with your fingertips and if she likes it, work up to a deeper massage. It never hurts to throw in a few kisses there as well. One technique we have learned usually works well with a massage is; while you are massaging her, take a minute or so to kiss her neck, then run your tongue very softly down her spine!
Ever wanted to try something but didn\'t know how to bring it up with your partner? Tell them you \"read something interesting online\" and insert your fantasy!
Girls, you should play with yourself to learn your preferences! Experiment with touch and tempo, explore the sensations to be found around your clitoris, push some of your soapy fingers into your anus when having a shower or slide your fingers up and down your vaginal lips and around the entrance to your vagina… If your fingers can do the walking, what about your knuckles? The spray from your shower hose? Add lube for extra slipperiness & when it wears off, see how dry friction feels. What feels best for you? Keep experimenting whilst repeating the especially good bits!
You should work on your fingering technique when you want to stimulate your partnel anally. Using her natural vaginal lubricant or salvia may work, but I strongly recommend that you use lubricant, especially the first few times. Apply a fair amount of lubricant on your finger, and start by making little circles around her anus with a finger. If you feel her clenching her bum, you need to find a way to help her relax, as progressing deeper while she is “tight” will only cause another bad experience. Kissing her on the mouth and all over her body, performing cunnilingus, are just a few ways to ease her anxieties. If you get a chance to put on some music and candles ahead of time, it should help her be more comfortable...
Other rectal tips include these tricks as well: When performing the following, make sure that your fingers are well lubricated. There is nothing more uncomfortable (and painful) than a dry finger roughly rubbed across the rectal area or pushed inside. Nevertheless, it never hurts to keep a \"tube of lube\" sitting nearby. The partner could help you by relaxing the inner muscles around the rectum, sometimes the actual penetration could be made easier if the partner tries to imitate outward-focused pushing motions. Once inside, you can start playing to see what she likes. Start slowly and softly, and make sure to pay attention to her reactions when you speed up and/or add pressure. A few basic techniques to get you started are move your finger in a circular motion exploring the walls of her rectum, moving in circular motions along a specific region, moving in and out, rotating your hand to spin your finger. After learning what you can from these techniques, start mixing two, three or more of them together. Just always remember that it is a very sensitive area; so be gentle and watch her reactions before going further.
Anal lessons – the guy’s part.:
This week our ”anal session” will be continued, this time, with the guy’s part, for his approach to the topic counts much. So boys, learn these simple tricks for your own and for your lover’s sake! First, let’s stay at the surrounding area of her anus, okay? Without going too close to her anus, explore her inner thighs and bum with your hands and mouth.
Maybe some analingus tricks would help you out! Some women have had bad experiences with anal play in their history, mostly because their partner moved much faster, or less gently, than they should have. If this is true in your case, getting her to talk about the topic is a great way to start. By learning where they went wrong, you can prevent that experience from happening again. In the next week’s tip, you could read about the actual penetration part, so stay tuned…
Several of you asked some anal tips from me. In the following few weeks you\'ll receive my advices on this topic, one after the other, slowly, as you should explore this secret of a woman\'s body. Let\'s start with her perineum first: The perineum is the area between the vagina and the anus, it is very sensitive for a lot of women and it often goes unexplored. It\'s made from tissue similar to the vaginal lips so there are a lot of nerve endings there. It also has an element of intimacy that might turn her on. Some girls are scared of or disgusted by anal play, so if this is the case, ease her mind by reassuring her that you are not going to do anything she is against. It\'s not a part of the body that\'s normally exposed, so she will feel like she\'s giving you special privileges, which can be exciting. This area is like any other area you first encounter that is sensitive, stick to a light touch at first and hold off until she\'s been aroused for some time. For a smoother experience, try using a little artificial lubricant or massage oil.
Hi All, this tip is from our member CoriLynn, hope you all will enjoy. :))
\"Keep a sex journal of things you do by yourself and/or with your partner. When your feeling lonely or your not particulary in the mood read your journal and you\'ll be ready in no time!\"
Thx Cori.
Rub your lover\'s feet! The feet have lots of sensitive nerve endings, and rubbing them can be as erotic as relaxing!
Take a course in massage. They are available in the evenings and at alternative schools in almost every city. Or take a class with your partner for a gift of pleasure you will both enjoy.
One of my fantasies is connected to food: For me, chocolate, wine, honey, yogurt, whipped cream, pudding and edible glitter is delight and arouse the senses. The texture and taste is ambrosia. Food enhances the eroticism. I often pour chocolate sauce all over my partner’s penis or soak him with champagne. I like the tingle of the bubbles. Yet another time I make a large bowl of butterscotch pudding and he puts his dick in the pudding and I lick it off. We had a lot of fun playing around with food. You should also try it!
Speak and Spell. Next time you are giving your partner a back rub, try spelling out a secret message with your finger and see if he or she can guess what you wrote. Take turns and see who gets more right. What the winner gets is up to you! :)
The entire breast is rich in nerve endings and all breasts have the same number of nerve endings. Thus, the woman with smaller breasts may experience increased sensations per touch. This results from a condensed amount of nerve endings. All breasts respond with time; lovers, go slow, take your time and slowly fondle the breast. Areas that are especially sensitive to touch include the nipple and the areola (the pinkish area that directly surrounds the nipple). One of the most sensitive spots, which is often ignored, is the underside of her breast. When kissing and touching her breasts, try starting around the outside and moving inward with slow circles. She may push your mouth or hand directly to her nipples, but don\'t let her do it, just continue moving slowly towards her nipple. Take your time; she is not going anywhere, so tease her. This whole process should take at least a few minutes. Next, wet the tip of your finger and lightly touch and roll her nipple around. Then, very lightly, using your fingertips, squeeze the nipple between them and when they are nice and hard, bring your mouth in. Note: some women enjoy nibbling and rougher play, while others are really sensitive and prefer light soft touching. Find out her preferences by asking or watching her reactions!
Massage When most people give their partner a massage, they act like they are trying to work a cramp out of a football player\'s leg! For a much more sensual (and sexy) approach, try the opposite: see how lightly you can run your hands over their body while still making contact. You can even try brushing your fingers slightly above the skin, tickling a bit. So lighten up!
How\'d you learned these? An advanced and very successful technique is a combination of these two tricks: Trace the inside of her vagina with your finger(s), while moving in and out. Make sure that your fingertip always hits the g spot on each rotation. Finding a nice rhythm is critical in this technique, and when you get it right, she’ll be asking you how you learned that!
Don\'t forget simple, sensual pleasures. Something as subtle as brushing your partner\'s long, soft hair (with a brush or especially with your own fingers) can feel wonderful for both of you.
Little tricks With your fingers approximately two to three inches in, move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of her vagina. It generally feels best if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls while fingering. You may wish to give a LITTLE extra pressure towards her belly as long as you don\'t break the steady rotational rhythm. Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the (usually slightly ridged) area of the vagina just behind the pubic bone and exert pressure towards her belly (upwards). This is direct G Spot stimulation, and it usually feels best if the fingers are subtly moving. You can move your fingers in small, slow circles, or point your fingers more sharply and rock them back and forth.
Try a \"quickie.\" Not every sexual encounter has to be a several-course meal; some can be light snacks you grab when you\'re starving! A quick, hard fuck will fullfill your bodily wishes, believe me…
Anal access Access to her anus is a little tougher then to her vagina, but there are several positions that are ideal; lying on her back with a large pillow to arch her bum up, her sitting on your face, her bent over with legs spread, lying on her back pulling her legs back, and her upside down with her legs spread.
Only for girls: Position your hands on each side of his dick with your fingers pointing away from his dick. Pretend you\'re a campfire girl and start spinning and turning his dick like a stick of wood – lightly and carefully. Slowly speed up… This should keep the home fires burning for a long time.
Her lips: The number one mistake guys (especially married or in long term relationships) make during sex? Not enough kissing. Women love to kiss, and many of them complain that guys just don\'t spend enough time on it. But don\'t just kiss more, also do it better. Try varying the intensity (kiss her softly, then more passionately, then slow it down again). When you\'re done with her lips, move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck, or earlobes (stressing neck and ears). Don’t get dull doing the same thing over and over; make sure to mix up your style. If you generally move your hands all over her body when you kiss (which, by the way, is really good :P), try kissing her for several minutes without letting your hands roam (focus all you passion on the kiss), and let her indicate when she\'s ready to move on.
While most people are looking for ways to make sex better with a partner, too often people forget about themselves. One of the joys of sex is seeing how much your partner is enjoying his or herself. Don\'t deny them (or yourself) that pleasure. Don\'t get so caught up in pleasing them that you forget to enjoy yourself.
Remember your first time? If you are in a romantic mood, try to look at things with fresh eyes! Pretend that you and your partner are trying something for the first time. Concentrate on experiencing the novelty of each sensation.
Anal sex is quite a different ball game than using your finger. Even if she does enjoy your finger pleasuring her there, she may be apprehensive about putting something so large as your penis in there. The keys to success are; plenty of lubrication, relaxation on her part, and a slow, gentle approach. Let her tell you when she wants it harder or faster and don\'t be shy about playing with her vagina at the same time.
Eye to eye If I’m in romantic mood, I often use this trick: Try looking deep into your partner\'s eyes during orgasm -- it may be harder than you think…!
Use your body! Sexual toys are a great way to enhance your sexual experiences. They can vibrate, stay hard, and best of all they don’t get tired. There is no better way to learn how to experience vaginal orgasms then by using a vibrator to help you figure out how to use your body better.
Of course, the basis of your sex life should be the knowledge of your own body, your reactions and desires. The best way to achieve this knowlegde is through masturbation. For a change of pace, try masturbating with your other hand. Becoming less rigid will open up possibilities for you--by yourself or with a partner.
Show your partner what you like – This is the basis of a harmonious relationship! Teach them exactly how you like to be touched -place your hand over theirs and guide them to your pleasure spots.
Weekend getaway II. After guaranteeing the peaceful and erotic milieu described in the previous tip, you can move on with your project. Slowly undress her and do it with much attention: undressing a woman is incredibly fun, so remove each item of her clothing slowly and with calculation. As you remove each piece, massage the newly naked area with the palms of your hands or your penis... Better yet, you can unsuspectingly let your penis rub itself between her thighs... This really turns us on!! But do not hurry - you should resist the temptation to penetrate even if she begs for you cock, because you are heading for a long and intensive night, not just a quickie, right? It might destroy this wonderful event!
Weekend getaway If there\'s a special occasion or not, sometimes planning something new and wonderful for your partner can lead to ultimate joy - for both of you. Add some sexual spice to this weekend, and you\'ll have such a great time that you\'ll be never forget about this hot getaway . Before you even reach your destination, I strongly recommend that you tease her both verbally and physically. And if you have a cellular phone - or basically anything that may distract you - shut it off and keep your attention focused on her entirely. To be continued soon!
Mirror, mirror on the wall You\'ve certainly got a mirror in your house, so move it to the bedroom! You can play around with it: a side view is especially erotic, but I can also advise one looking glass at the headboard. This sexy little add-on doesn\'t have to be as elaborate as drilling a mirror your ceiling. Or you could try the bathroom mirror as well… one of my favourites… as I\'m leaning over the sink, he\'s behind me and we both see our reflections… this turns both of us on!
Try some new and wild locales! Don\'t get into a rut - it is amazing how much difference having sex in a different room or location can make… Since it’s summer, begin with your own backyard…!
Analingus: Licking this area of the body is virtually no different then licking any other, and can be very stimulating for your partner. Don’t just jump right in; build up to it and allow for your partner to get comfortable. A great way to start performing analingus is to move into it when you are performing cunnilingus. The area is really sensitive, so run your tongue around in circular motions, use your tongue to tickle, and when you are both ready for it, even to penetrate.
For a new feeling, change the sheets! I mean if you need a little variety, try making love on different materials: soft satin, cooling silk, warm cotton and creamy flannel all feel distinctly differently against your skin!
Shower power! If you\'ve never used a shower massager for erotic pleasures before, try it out! This actually works great both for guys and gals, and you can buy one at just about any department store without being ashamed (as in the sexshop). This little trick turns a shower or bath into so much more!
Hey, Sweetie girl! After you\'ve teased him for a while with your spinning maneuver, slide your hand down his testicles and gently grab them in your fingers, slowly and softly tugging them down and away from his shaft. Whatever you do, don\'t squeeze them!
Blindfolding again: Have your partner listen to a number of sounds. Make sure the sounds are all different, from melodic music to loud drums to the soft sound of your breath! Expanding the range of sensations she feels in one way will leave her open to feeling more during sex.
Her fingers and toes: A little creativity can go a long way when sex is involved. Here\'s a tip: Try sucking on her fingers or toes during foreplay or intercourse. They\'re a lot more sensitive than you might think and for whatever reason, a relatively large area in the brain receives sensation for them. Lightly kissing or passionately sucking them, especially combined with the sensations you\'re causing in her genitals, can be incredibly erotic.
Some more textures. Here is another way to try playing with textures: Instead of rubbing your partner\'s body with things like fur and silk, rub through them! What you do is keep the material still against your partner\'s body, and move your hand over it. If you do it this way, you can create all sorts of unique sensations using even unusual items such as Saran Wrap.
Lube love. Try putting a tiny dollop of lubricant inside the tip of your condom. It will increase sensitivity. Just be careful to put the lubricant in the tip only - otherwise you risk the condom slipping right off during sex - not a good thing!
Hand job techniques. Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger, girl, and pump up and down with this ring. When you get to the top, close the ring, then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.
Bubble pleasures. Well, try taking a warm, sensuous bath with your partner or yourself. Bubble bath is not for kids any more! If you use aromatic oils and scented soap you could feel your body relax and your sexual spirit soar...
Sexy Surprise. I often surprise my lover. One of my favourite trick is this: Place a drop of specially flavored oil somewhere on your body that you know he will lick. Watch for the look on their face… These oils are available at your local sexshop, in various dosages and flavours from vanilla to strawberry…as you like it!
Music excites the savage beast. Okay, I know it is a so-called cliche, but the right music really can enhance sex. And, Barry White is not the only thing you can play :)
Be a sEXPERT! Learn everything you can about sex. Don\'t worry about spoiling the \"mystery.\" The more you know - the better it gets. Use the web, books, even videos to help you become an expert. You\'re sure to find something that works.
Blindfolding again: Another way to surprise your partner: Put a blindfold on your partner and ask them what you are touching them with. Try lots of things and see if your playmate can guess just by the way it feels her.
Swing! Okay, this is getting a little more advanced, but a hammock can be a great accessory for sex -- giving you or your partner an almost weightless feeling. Indeed, there are a number of companies that sell \"love swings\" for this very purpose. So, if you can manage it, install a couple of bolts to the wall from which you can suspend a hammock. Here\'s the trick: she lays down perpendicularly, in the middle of the swing; otherwise the risk of falling right out would be increased!
Pick a card: Write down several of your favorite fantasies on separate pieces of paper - things you have actually wanted to try. Have your partner do the same. Fold them all up and put them in a box. Then, when you two are in the mood, pick one and play!
Paint by numbers: It\'s not just for kids anymore! Use common household items like chocolate syrup and whipped cream. (Just make sure that whatever you use is nontoxic!) Make patterns on your partner\'s body, or have a contest to see who can draw a better likeness of each other! Then, find your own way to clean up!
Hot treatment: (for girls) Gently roll his testicles up the underside of his shaft. Now very lightly, begin to stroke his erection with your fingers, running them all over his sensitive shaft and balls. If your man doesn\'t seem to have a very hard and/or firm erection, try using a cinnamon-based ointment. The slight burning sensation often causes the penis to become rock-hard. Adding a little bit to the testicles also helps. If you really want to do a number on him, slip a drop of Ben-Gay on his balls and watch him go through the roof.
Introduce a little novelty! It doesn\'t have to be the world\'s largest vibrator, something as simple as new underwear or even some flavored lubricant can add that little extra bit of fun and spice to your sex life.
Tasty Licks: You have probably heard about Altoids, but many other things can also give you or your partner a new tingle. Try a dab of peppermint oil, or even a tiny bit of chili sauce (as a joke).
Morning coffee! Next time you start the day in the kitchen with a cup of joe, let it cool in your mouth and then perform oral sex on your partner. The sensation of the liquid in your mouth will be a new experience, and coffee is great for this because it doesn\'t have sugar or acid!
Her clitoris: It is located at the top juncture of her inner vaginal lips, a small knob of pink flesh. Women like different amounts of direct stimulation on their clitoris. Some women will adore it if you suck hard on their exposed clitoris, others would shriek in pain. You may encounter a woman who is completely unable to take direct stimulation of her clit; the goal is still the same, but you\'ll have to stimulate it indirectly, such as through her labia. Often, what is unacceptably rough at first may be fine after she\'s very excited (i.e., very wet). The fact is, most women need a good bit of arousal before having their clitoris targeted, but once they have reached that point, that\'s where many women want you to devote your attention...
Tips for gals: I usually surprise my lover by hanging up a sheet and then dancing behind it so he can only see my silhouette. Do the same with your lover, they\'ll be tempted to see the rest of you after watching you move!
Fingering Technique: Spread her outer vaginal lips with your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently flick your tongue around her clitoris. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clitoris, as it is the most sensitive. This drives some women wild, and others find it to too intense. When stimulating her clit make sure to start out gently if you aren’t sure how she likes it. When you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstasy or pain.
Sensual Hairwash: Wash your lover\'s hair using an aromatherapeutic shampoo. It\'s sensual, relaxing and erotic at the same time, and these intimate moments will help you to sweeten up your relationship. Anyway, she’ll love it!
Fingering Technique: An excellent way to begin manual stimulation is to stick one, and later two or more, finger(s) inside her, with your palm cupped over the mons area. I’m talking about that fleshy \"mound\" over her pubic bone. Your finger should have freedom to move in and out freely while the palm of your hand can add pressure against her vulva and clitoris. Once you get better, you can start moving your palm to add more stimulation.
Chill out! Most of you have heard of using ice, but try this: Place an ice cube in your mouth for several seconds before kissing or licking your partner. The shivering sensations will cause great pleasures…
Fun tip: Put a sliver of ice in your mouth and let it melt while licking your partner. Then take the ice cube out of your mouth and let small drops of ice water fall on various parts of your lover\'s body. Watch out for more ice tips!
Fingering technique: Another, more intense motion is to position your hand so that you have one or two fingers inside her with your palm facing her body. Now bend your fingers inward and move them in rapid but short movements focusing on her G Spot. This technique can quickly bring your woman to orgasm, especially when combined with cunnilingus.
Blindfolding: Blindfold your partner and then have them taste a number of foods. Make sure the foods all taste different, from sweet to salty to, well, just plain bitter! Expanding the range of sensations they feel in one way will leave them open to feeling more during your sexual intercourse!
